As some of you may know, I have been interviewing different students around NIU. Mainly in the College of Business. This is a new operation that we put into effect at the beginning of this spring semester, and what started as a small simple project, has turned into an eye-opening experience that really has changed my view on life, in the most positive way possible. These are the Students of NIU.
When you take time out of someone else’s day, you’re starting to step into uncharted territory. Time is one of the most valuable things we have. It’s one of the only things in our lives that is certain, time will keep moving. That being said, seeing how people use their time, and what they have done in their time so far, is simply amazing. From students being the only person in their family to get an education to moving to the United States literally weeks ago. Everyone has a unique story to tell, and I love listening.
This project has taken on a whole new meaning for me. I’m no longer interviewing people, I’m learning about my fellow students and forming new friends. We live in a society where everything moves so fast, and if you don’t stop to talk to your peers, you may never meet anyone beyond your class schedule. Isn’t that a scary thought? Seven billion people and counting in this world, and we only talk to the people that we have to. People’s lives are so amazing when you think about it. Some people have been to different parts of the world, learned new languages, and ventured off into uncharted territory that we happen to call home. To me, that’s incredible. It’s also incredible that someone could go their whole lives not interacting with one another, and not getting to tell their story, simply because no one asked.
At times, I thought to myself, “These people don’t want to talk to some stranger. Even if they did, they’re too busy.” I was wrong, and I’m glad I was wrong. Talking to people could seem like such an easy and mundane task, but in reality, it’s a way to relieve stress, take a step back from your own life, and reflect. I don’t think anyone is perfect in anything they do. There is always room to grow and to learn something new from someone else. I truly believe that the only way to get better and work our way to being “perfect,” is to learn a little piece from each person you meet, on what they do well. Not only did each of you highlight something in life that you did well, but you also made yourselves better by gaining knowledge from one another. But don’t worry about being perfect; it can’t be that fun when you think about it. Once you consider yourself all knowing, that’s the moment you’ll stop learning.
We take so much time to form relationships with people and then we’re so quick to get comfortable, never branching out to meet new people. It’s interesting how hard it is for people to talk about themselves when I ask. Try it right now, what can you tell me about yourself? Isn’t hard it? But once I start, “peeling back the layers” of these scholars, is when I really start to see why everyone we live around is so special and unique. Everyone has unique outlooks on life, and special mottos they live by. So what’s your story? What drives you? What gets you out of bed in the morning? Is it as simple as, “well, because I have to.” I just don’t buy that anymore. I think people are deep, unique, and inspired creatures waiting to express their story. Every one of us has the opportunity to uncover that treasure of a new friend, right now. Take the time to talk to someone new sometime soon. You really would be surprised how alike we all are, and what we can learn from each other is endless really.
I think I will leave you all with a quote that I have written in the front of my journal. This quote comes from Tim Augustine, and I wrote it down at a conference in Schaumburg for Delta Sigma Pi:
“The motto that has made me successful, but also has kept me humble throughout my career is to always be the least knowledgeable person in the room at all times, but be smart enough to get by. What I mean by this is surround yourself with people who are more intelligent and better at specific things, than you. That way, you’ll never stop learning, and, more importantly, you’ll never run out of things to talk about.” – Tim Augustine
Remember to keep being awesome everyone,