Editor’s Note: Hello! It’s Jacob Ferguson, the Marketing and Social Media Intern for the NIU College of Business. Do you ever wonder what you were put on this world to do? Do you ever ask yourself if you are living your life to its fullest potential? What I intend to provide you with in this post is aid in helping you better answer and understand those questions. What this post will not provide you with is the answers. If you would like to learn more about me please feel free to connect with me on LinkedIn or follow me on Twitter.
Most of us wander through life wondering what it is we were put on this world to do. Some figure it out sooner than others and some never figure it out at all. What follows are some thought provoking ideas that will make you think about who you are and who you want to be. Here goes nothing…
Accept yourself for who you are. You can’t begin living until you have fully accept yourself and all your insecurities. You are who you are and there are some things that can simply not be changed. The sooner that you realize that the better off you will be.
Being perfect is a sham. The idea of being perfect is unrealistic and quite frankly quite humorous. It’s something that one can strive for their whole life and never achieve, much like a dog chasing its tail. Focus on being the best you that you can be.
Ride with the tide and go with the flow. Embrace everything that happens to you whether good or bad and more importantly find the lesson in everything you do. Work tirelessly to change the things you can but don’t be discouraged by the things you can’t.
Find your balance. Discover what energizes you, what makes you happy, and how you connect to yourself. If you do this you will never work a day in your life.
Use those around you as a mirror. Surround yourself with people that you have things in common with and would like to be like. Chances are if you are around a person enough you will pick up on certain things that they do and adapt them as your own.
Connect to your core. Find harmony between who you are and what you do. Take what you’ve already learned about yourself and transform your life.
Strive for greatness and never settle. When you’ve fall down, pick yourself back up. Don’t be average, but most importantly be yourself.
If this post did nothing more than make you think about and reflect upon yourself than I would deem it a success. As the end of the year approaches and the number of blog posts I have left dwindles down, I will do my best to write about what I am thinking about as a student because I can only assume that a lot of you are thinking about the same things and going through the same changes as I am. Until next time!